Chris here...
Most of the time adoption feels nothing like going through a pregnanacy, but then....you wake up on Monday morning to a call at 7:35 telling you to be downstairs in 20 minutes because unlike plans for the adoption to occur on Wednesday, Monday is now the day! Labor has started in a big way.
We rushed around frantically showering and throwing everything that might be necessary in a plethora of bags...overpacking is not a problem at times like this! Chloe helped along the way to chants of "I'm going to be a big sister" and we were off. We took a three hour bus ride through the Vietnamese coutnry side up into a mountainaous region. The countryside was beautiful and the people along the way were all smiles. We will save the beauties of Vietnam in general for another post.

Upon arriving at the orphanage two things became apparent - our new daugther was a favorite of the nanny and the nanny was the favorite of our new daughter. The orphanage director held her the whole time on a 15 minute ride to the local government complex where the actual ceremony took place and throughout most of the ceremony. We learned that unlike our previous direction - Quynh is actually pronounced "Quinn" and that was the name she went by in the orphanage. It is the name we will probably keep for her if we can change Chloe's habit of refering to her nonstop as "my baby Gabrielle".
After the official ceremony, we went back to the orphanage and dropped of the babies for a nap. This was very hard on the new mommies, but allowed everyone to take a breather over a nice Vietnamese lunch of fresh fish, fried corn (best thing ever), rice noodles, and beef with rice. Washed down with the local beer the meal was perfect and in a beautiful setting - seen in the picture with Chloe below.
After that we went back to the orphanage for about 3 hours of visiting with the babies, the nannies, and the other new families. It was time well spent learning the little eccentricities of the care the children were used to and getting recommendations on their future care. We finally got to hold Quynh at this point once she fell asleep in the nanny's arms. It felt great and Chloe especially loved holding her for the first time. Speaking of that, Chloe was perfect throughout the whole day and was super enjoyable to all the couples. She talked to most of them during the bus ride as she was definitely stretching her wings in the role of big sister!

After the ride home on which Quynh, Chloe and Chris slept the whole way, Quynh and her new family settled into the apartment to get acquanted. 13 hours of labor and we are a family!
PS - She is definitely a momma's girl at this point!

15 comments:
YEAH!!! I have been refreshing the page ALL DAY waiting for the family of 4! We are so happy for you all and we can't wait to hear more. Congratulations and Savannah says Chloe can give her pointers on being a big sister!!! Congratulations to you all!!! AMK, MK and SK in NC!
Congratulations!!! We are so happy for you all, and especially for Gabriella. We can't wait to see everyone here in North Carolina. Once again congratulations and have a safe trip home.
Best wishes,
Joel and Ericka Maynard
(Ann's mom and dad)
I have given Anne Marie a run for her money checking your blog today. What a surprise to see you went into labor two days early!!! A much deserved blessing after your rollercoaster ride of a wait. The Moody Zoo is celebrating with you on this side of the world.
Dear Chloe,
Congratulations! You'll love being a big sister.
Love,
Allena
Dear Chloe,
I am glad you have a little sister.
Love,
Rachel
Congratulations!! I am so excited for you.
Congratulations!! It's great that Quynh is in your arms a few days sooner.
CONGRATULATIONS!!! What a wonderful surprise. Quynh is beautiful and we are so happy that you are finally all together!
Karen, Chris and Charlotte
OH MY GOODNESS!!! You all are such a beautiful family! Congratulations. Gabrielle is definitely a TQ beauty! Chloe looks so happy to have her baby sister with her finally!
God Bless you all and have fun in Hanoi!
Shannon
About friggen time, lol. For once, something happened ahead of schedule!!!!
She looks perfect with you and Chris and Chloe. But no more Gabrielle? I'm not sure I can get used to that. :)
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a wonderful surprise you all had! Congrats!
So Exciting! Glad you made it thru labor- great post Chris. So great to see you all together finally! I hope the rest of your journey is calm and enjoying! Can't wait to see ya'll!
Chloe-
I'm glad you have your new sister. I hope you have fun with her. I can't wait to meet her when you get home. I think I like all of your pictures that you have posted. Have fun in Viet Nam. I'll see you soon.
Love-
Holly
Wonderful news. Welcome to fold Quynh Gabrielle Gailor-Loflin. We love you all ready.
Love,
Joc
p.s. Do you need me to mail your taxes?
Wonderful news. What a couple cuties you have. Chloe, I can all ready tell that you have big sistering down pat. We can't wait to meet Quynh Gabrielle Gailor-Loflin.
Love,
Joc
ps Do you need me to mail your taxes for you??
Hi- The boys miss Chloe at Preschool but know she will be back with her sister!
Congratulations!
-Christina, Samuel and Andreas
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